英语励志短文:主动的生活I want to be internally dri

One day, if someone gets up on the right side of the bed and calls me and says:’ You are the greatest person on earth. You are doing a great job and I want you to know I am honored  to call you a friend.” I know he is sincere. How does it make me fell? Great. But the next day, duanwenwcom he gets up on the wrong side side of the bed, picks up the phone and says:” You rascal, you cheat, you crook! You are biggest fraud in town.” How does it make me feel? Terrible.
一天,如果某人情绪甚佳,并打电话给我说:“你是世界上最伟大的人。你做得非常好,我想让你知道把你称作朋友是我的荣幸。”我知道他是诚心的。听了这话我会有何感受?棒极了。然而第二天,他情绪不佳,拿起电话给我说:“你这恶棍,你这骗子,你这个不诚实的人!你是镇上最大的骗子。”我又有何感受?非常糟糕。

So the first day when he says, “You are the greatest guy,” I feel great and the next day when he says, “you rascal,” I feel terrible. Who is controlling my life? Obviously, he is, Is that the way I want to through life? Not at all. That is being externally driven.
第一天,他说:“你是最棒的人”时, 我感觉良好。而第二天,当他说:”你是恶棍”时我感觉糟糕。谁在操纵我的生活?很明显是他。难道这就是我的生活方式吗?决不是,这是外因驱动。

I want to be internally driven. When he calls me and says I am the greatest guy it is good to hear those words. But even if he doesn’t say those words, in my own estimation, I am still a  god human being. And the next day when he rips me apart, he can’t really, because in my own estimation, duanwenw.com  I am still a good human being. When people make statements like, “You make me angry, ” the focus of control is external. But if I say I am angry or I choose to be angry, the focus of control is internal.
我要主动的生活。当他打电话给我说我是最棒的人时,接受这些话语是有益的,但即使他并不是这么说,在我的自我评价中我依然是个好人。而第二天,当他想将我的自尊心撕碎时,他也并不能真正做到,因为在我的自我评价中我依旧是个好人。当人们说:“你使我愤怒“时,操纵点在外界。而如果我说我生气了,英语短文或者我要选择生气,那么操纵点就是内在的。

No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.
没有人能使你感到低微,除非你允许他们这样做。

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