否定是一份礼物Rejection Is a Gift
Rejection is not about you; it’s someone who makes a choice based on their own needs and goals.
否定与你无关,是其他人依据自己需求和目标做出的选择。
You cannot control another person. What we can change is the way we choose to interpret another person’s choice. Each of us here on Earth is entitled* to their own journey.
你无法控制别人。我们能改变的是理解这些选择的方式。地球上的每个人都有权选择自己的人生之旅。
Rejection shows us our next opportunities for growth. It guides us to the wounds that we have within. The suffering we feel leads us to greater levels of self-awareness if we choose to learn and grow from the experience. When someone rejects us it shows us how sensitive we are and the ways we are probably still questioning and doubting ourselves.
否定为我们指明下次成长的机会。它引导我们发现内心的创伤。如果我们能够从中学习并汲取经验,被否定的痛苦将带给我们更深层次的自省。当我们被别人否定,这恰恰显示出我们的敏感,以及我们是如何自我怀疑的。
If you don’t reject you, nobody else can, either. An important key to moving beyond rejection is to learn to love and accept yourself for who you are. If you accept and love yourself fully, does it matter if someone walks out on you? You listen to their comments, thank them for their honesty, smile or shrug and then move on with your day.
如果你不自我否定,那也就没有人能否定你。走出否定的关键在于喜欢并接受真实的自己。如果你能完全做到这点,别人是否舍弃你又有什么关系呢？你倾听他们的评价,感谢他们的诚实,微笑或仅仅是耸耸肩,然后继续自己的生活。
Rejection is a gift. It opens the door to new things, better-suited friends and partners, and fresh experiences. It is a blessing when people tell the truth! By doing this, they save us time and energy. I would much prefer someone to be real with me than to pretend that everything is perfect.
否定是一份礼物。它创造机会迎接新鲜事物,更默契的朋友、伙伴,和新体验。人们能够实话实说是件好事。那些说实话的人节省了我们的时间和精力。比起假装认为每件事都很完美,我更喜欢人们对我以诚相待。
否定与你无关,是其他人依据自己需求和目标做出的选择。
You cannot control another person. What we can change is the way we choose to interpret another person’s choice. Each of us here on Earth is entitled* to their own journey.
你无法控制别人。我们能改变的是理解这些选择的方式。地球上的每个人都有权选择自己的人生之旅。
Rejection shows us our next opportunities for growth. It guides us to the wounds that we have within. The suffering we feel leads us to greater levels of self-awareness if we choose to learn and grow from the experience. When someone rejects us it shows us how sensitive we are and the ways we are probably still questioning and doubting ourselves.
否定为我们指明下次成长的机会。它引导我们发现内心的创伤。如果我们能够从中学习并汲取经验,被否定的痛苦将带给我们更深层次的自省。当我们被别人否定,这恰恰显示出我们的敏感,以及我们是如何自我怀疑的。
If you don’t reject you, nobody else can, either. An important key to moving beyond rejection is to learn to love and accept yourself for who you are. If you accept and love yourself fully, does it matter if someone walks out on you? You listen to their comments, thank them for their honesty, smile or shrug and then move on with your day.
如果你不自我否定,那也就没有人能否定你。走出否定的关键在于喜欢并接受真实的自己。如果你能完全做到这点,别人是否舍弃你又有什么关系呢？你倾听他们的评价,感谢他们的诚实,微笑或仅仅是耸耸肩,然后继续自己的生活。
Rejection is a gift. It opens the door to new things, better-suited friends and partners, and fresh experiences. It is a blessing when people tell the truth! By doing this, they save us time and energy. I would much prefer someone to be real with me than to pretend that everything is perfect.
否定是一份礼物。它创造机会迎接新鲜事物,更默契的朋友、伙伴,和新体验。人们能够实话实说是件好事。那些说实话的人节省了我们的时间和精力。比起假装认为每件事都很完美,我更喜欢人们对我以诚相待。
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